Beyond Self-Doubt

My previous post might have come across as though I’m badmouthing my competition, but that’s not the case — I don’t view my colleagues as competitors.

When I was studying to become a psychotherapist, I had this huge worry: What if no one chooses me? Who would want an immigrant therapist with English as a second language? I was so self-conscious about it.

But then I realised something: I would be absolutely fine working with an immigrant therapist, so surely, there would be others like me. That’s when the idea that “my clients will find me” emerged and became my mantra.

And that’s exactly what happened. Interestingly, when clients are referred to me by colleagues, they rarely stay. But the ones who actively choose me? They do.

I guess the conclusion is pretty obvious here: Be yourself. I know, it sounds cheesy — but it’s still true.